The common misconceptions of men only find the physical aspects of women attractive rather than the fact that they are as a person is hard to obliterate. Although physical aspects are often the first things that will catch the attention of a man, man looks beyond them too. Love comes from within. So does the life span of an attraction. Here we discuss the things that woman does that attracts men. Whether you are married or you are in a relationship, these are rather the notional idea of the things that attract man generally.
When you are passionate about something
It does not matter if you like art or writings or you are into footballs. If they are the things that you are passionate about and you talk highly of them, man finds that attractive. So if you are into poets and you have passion in writing, he would definitely buy the books are so into to make you happy. Because that’s the thing you are passionate about. That’s the thing that you can talk for hours to him about. If you are passionate about something rather than the things that are mundane like watching Netflix, they will find you more attractive. Don’t get us wrong, Netflix is fun and to watch it sometimes as a date night in is fun. But sometimes they want to know what are the things that describe you.
When you stand your ground
When you are decisive and you stand your ground. Standing on your ground and being opinionated are two different things. It’s like being confident and dictatorial. They are both different things. When you stand your ground does not mean you are egoistic and you won’t admit your wrong because “you stand your ground.” It means your opinions might change due to some facts but you have your decisions. You are decisive and you believe in what you know. But if you think something is wrong, you will admit your fault. That’s what makes a woman attractive. Man finds a woman who is courageous, determine and confident really attractive. But keep in mind not to lie about your opinions.
When you appreciate the little things
Acquiring a taste for high end and luxurious stuff does not mean you are superficial or materialistic. And some men don’t even mind to buy you expensive gifts and presents. But sometimes the littlest things mean more to him than you might think. When you remember the old picture in his childhood bedroom and you asked him about it. When you remember his favorite chocolate and you brought it home to him. When you watch with him his favorite childhood movie. Or when you appreciate the little things that he did and does for you. Like the one time he bought a bouquet of daisies because you said you had a rough day. And the time he brought you a pair of new socks because you said you like wearing socks to sleep. That’s the littlest thing that men will find attractive if you do genuinely appreciate them. (More on genuine in the next point.)
When you are genuine and kind, that will attract him
A man once said, “If how she brings herself screams bad news, overall about her I will find unattractive.” If that doesn’t justify the point, we don’t what would. When you are genuine and honest, you will be admirable. And you when you add that to your trait of kindness, you would be loved by all. Even when someone is being extra mean to you, you are still patient and kind to him or her. That’s what truly attracts men. Kindness; the pure and genuine type of kindness.
When you get along with his friends will attract him
Okay, yeah, we know it’s not the woman’s fault if some of his friends are a group of douchebag. But if you can keep up with the sarcastic remarks and those witty comebacks to throw at them, his jaw will definitely touch the floor. Believe us. You don’t need to sit with your legs open and smoke to fit in with them. All you need is to know how to talk and be comfortable with his friends. A real man will feel proud to have you and he will want to show you off. And introducing you to his friends is the first step. If you can get over and win that stage, you will win his heart, girl.
When you can start a conversation could attract him
Silence is good and all. Silence means you are comfortable with him. But sometimes silence is not a good thing. If you can start a conversation that he and you can keep up until the next morning, then you have already won him over. If you never know this, then you are welcome. This is one of the ways that you can attract him to like or love you even more.