Did you say friendzone?
Today, Wedding team deals with one of the biggest misfortunes, known to the youths of our century: the Friendzone. What is Friendzone? It literally means “zone of friendship” and indicates “a social situation in which a person wishes to maintain a love relationship with a person who aspires only to a friendly relation.” No, do not lie. You too, Casanova and Womanizer whoever you are, there was definitely a time where you were dubbed as a “lifelong friend” by your crush.
Need another definition?
Wedding team presents you four types of brave conquerors who never reached their purposes:
The best friend:
Present by her side since childhood; he knows the life of his “friend” in every detail. He is his closest adviser and confidant. It is now fifteen years that he is waiting his turn, to establish a love relationship with his sweetheart. That’s the time to unveil his secret love! Enough to take the car at three in the morning to comfort her from a break-up! Annoyed to watch the full Twilight saga for the fifth time! Tired to make afternoon Nutella – cupcakes – herbal tea. He gathers his courage to express his feelings. But the reaction is fast and brutal: “listen, our relationship is so fusional that I don’t want to break it.” In an instant, the adventurer is no more than a defenseless soldier, charged with carrying his affection for the beautiful the rest of his life. But it’s not over, she comes back to the charge: “You’re my best friend, you’re like a brother to me.” She has just given the final blow, the one that will make him shed a tear once he goes to sleep.
Haven’t she made it clear? F.R.I.E.N.D.S
He wants to do everything right, but he does too much. He follows his crush on every single activity. The devoted is a real profiler. He is the first to wish her ‘happy birthday’ when the clock strikes midnight. Besides, he starts WhatsApp conversions every hour to make sure that the lady is fine. He also offers her gifts by thousands. Finally, he knows the schedule of his secret love probably better than her. For all these reasons, the girl will flee as soon as she has the opportunity (if she has not already called the police).
Called as a last resort, it is often used when all other options have not been conclusive. Comfort after a break, he will hope to occupy a full place in the heart of his future bride. He will be quickly forgotten when she will fall in love with a new Chris Hemsworth.
The “Gossip Girl”:
He participates in spite of himself in the most intimate feminine conversations and regularly invited to sleepovers. He will eventually serve as face test for the last fashionable make-up and will lose all his credibility with girls.
So guys gather your courage and express your feelings before it’s too late!
Have you already been Friend-zoned? Do you friendzone your hopefuls?
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