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It’s a known fact that groomsmen are the brotherhood squad who helps the groom during his wedding day, especially during the gate-crashing games in the morning, and helping serve guests during the wedding reception. But what exactly is the responsibility of the best man? Is it just like that of a groomsman? Well in this article, we’ll share with you what exactly a best man and a groomsman is supposed to do during a wedding.
So what’s the difference between the best man and groomsmen?
Though the best man is considered to be a part of the groomsmen, there are still some distinct differences in roles. The best man is usually someone who is closely related to the groom, like a brother or a best friend. He also has the highest honour in the grooms party, and thus has greater responsibilities too, compared to the groomsmen.
The best man is usually the leader of the pack, in charge of organizing and ensuring that all the pre-wedding planning and details are on track. The groomsmen, on the other hand has the job of being on standby, should the best man or groom require their help.
The best man’s responsibilities
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In charge of helping the groom with wedding planning, and serving as the groom’s personal aide before and throughout their big day.
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If the couple is planning on having a Chinese church wedding, the best man has to attend the wedding rehearsal together with the bride and groom, as well as the rest of the wedding party. This is to ensure that everyone is aware of their roles during the big day.
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If there is no assigned ring bearer, the best man is in charge of taking care of the rings (Make sure that you don’t lose them!)
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The best man also has the great honour of planning the groom’s bachelor party.
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The best man also serves as a witness for the union between the bride and groom.
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One of the most important roles of a best man is to give a speech about the groom during the wedding ceremony or reception.
Groomsmen’s responsibilities
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Assisting the best man in organizing the groom’s bachelor party.
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Arrive early to the ceremony or wedding reception to act as ushers for wedding guests.
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Mingle and make guests feel welcomed and special on behalf of the busy bride and groom.
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Assist in picking out the perfect outfits for the wedding party and groom.
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Keep the groom relaxed and support the groom throughout the entire wedding day.
